30F dating white boyfriend but missing BBC. Will it get easier?

Irrespective of whether the OP is a guy or not, let's just say, enjoy what you want in life... why should you not? I'd suggest asking the bf first, he may be up for it. If not, just get it on the side.
 
I'll tell you from experience that it never goes away and even though you may be able to keep it contained, you'll always yearn for it and possibly resent your boyfriend if you don't get to act on it. Decades in hospitality has shown me various levels of relationships and couple's communication styles. Your best options would be to either communicate this to him and hope that he can see things your way (opening up the option for an extracurricular course of activity) or you can just deal with it and let it be. To even have a profile up on a platform filled to the brim with more dark meat than an African butchershop waiting to pounce on you just seems counterproductive even.
 
TTVB said:
I'm overall very happy and I have a great boyfriend, but I can't seem to stop thinking about some previous experiences I had with some guys who were black. I'm not going to cheat on him or anything. I know part of it is missing threesome type things and some parties id attention and the excitement of it all and the racial dynamic. They also made a big deal about me being white and petite. I'm small around 5'1" 100lbs and have an athletic build so I was surprised when I was who they wanted.

Anyway, that's all in the past. For those who have experience, when will the desire to do it again go away? Appreciate it.
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not cheating if he was watching
 
ThatsNoir said:
I'll tell you from experience that it never goes away and even though you may be able to keep it contained, you'll always yearn for it and possibly resent your boyfriend if you don't get to act on it. Decades in hospitality has shown me various levels of relationships and couple's communication styles. Your best options would be to either communicate this to him and hope that he can see things your way (opening up the option for an extracurricular course of activity) or you can just deal with it and let it be. To even have a profile up on a platform filled to the brim with more dark meat than an African butchershop waiting to pounce on you just seems counterproductive even.
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Thanks for your thoughts on this.
 
TTVB said:
Thanks for your thoughts on this.
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Size matters so if you are a total size queen now you will continue to crave bigger men and even a penis extending tool for him to wear is only a temporary cure… a good hint to him you need to be given a permanent hall pass to get Real Men with mighty Big Black Cocks to truly satisfy you
 
TTVB said:
For those who have experience, when will the desire to do it again go away? Appreciate it.
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Past feelings & desires tend to fade away once you find your true mate ... "soul mate" they often call it.
You'll know it when it happens. It's a feeling like no other you've experienced. Stronger than just 'love sickness'. So, relax, enjoy life, and have fun until it happens.
 
TTVB said:
I'm overall very happy and I have a great boyfriend, but I can't seem to stop thinking about some previous experiences I had with some guys who were black. I'm not going to cheat on him or anything. I know part of it is missing threesome type things and some parties id attention and the excitement of it all and the racial dynamic. They also made a big deal about me being white and petite. I'm small around 5'1" 100lbs and have an athletic build so I was surprised when I was who they wanted.

Anyway, that's all in the past. For those who have experience, when will the desire to do it again go away? Appreciate it.
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It'll always be in your mind.....you are a beautiful prize!
 
Cheating starts in the mind. However, we all have fantasies, how we deal with them will depend on your moral compass and discipline. Now as for what you desire, it's ok to have them, it becomes cheating when you see someone that is IRL, and want to fuck them. To have a general fantasy is fine. But you need to be honest with yourself and your mate. As some have suggested, he may surprise you. You know him, and you can sort of tell from how you both are sexually if that is something you can converse with him about and not feel judged or risk jeopardizing your relationship. You have to weigh what you have with what you want. Sometimes you have burn bridges to make distance to find happiness. It's how you do it that makes the difference. Don't punish yourself.
 
Darkjumper said:
Cheating starts in the mind. However, we all have fantasies, how we deal with them will depend on your moral compass and discipline. Now as for what you desire, it's ok to have them, it becomes cheating when you see someone that is IRL, and want to fuck them. To have a general fantasy is fine. But you need to be honest with yourself and your mate. As some have suggested, he may surprise you. You know him, and you can sort of tell from how you both are sexually if that is something you can converse with him about and not feel judged or risk jeopardizing your relationship. You have to weigh what you have with what you want. Sometimes you have burn bridges to make distance to find happiness. It's how you do it that makes the difference. Don't punish yourself.
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Well said King
 
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